"A wise man once distinguished between 'the noble art of getting things done' and 'the nobler art of leaving things undone.' True wisdom in life,' he taught, consists of 'the elimination of the non'essentials'. "
"What are the nonessential things that clutter your days and steal your time? What are the habits you may have developed that do not serve a useful purpose? What are the unfinished or unstarted things that could add vigor, meaning and joy to your life?"
Some of you will remember this quote from
Sister Beck's talk in the General RS meeting. I just read it yesterday in my Conference Ensign and LOVE it! So, as an exercise, I want to make a list of things to leave undone and habits that serve no useful purpose:
1. Checking my email 400 times a day. (surfing the web for cute Christmas clothes and searching random people on facebook fall under this category as well).
2. The idle chatter that accompanies my endless telephone calls (not to be confused with purposeful phone calls to check on loved ones or accomplish some task.)
3. Staying up after I'm tired, after the work is done, and doing essentially nothing.
4. Running to Walmart every other day instead of making a complete list so I can get everything in one trip.
I'm sure the list could be much longer. These are just off the top of my head. Anyway, the second part of the quote is the really important part: "What are the unfinished or unstarted things that could add vigor, meaning and joy to your life?" I have only one suggestion...
A few weeks ago I was talking on the phone to a local friend (NOT idle chatter because it inspired me to be better). She mentioned in passing that she gets up everyday at 5:30am to be showered, dressed and ready before she wakes her children up and gets them off to school. The thought was so foreign to me! What?! Some stay at home Moms aren't still in their pjs at 11? I was so intrigued that I decided to try it. It has been LIFE CHANGING! Now, I only have to get up at 6:30 to be dressed and ready before I need to wake my children up, but still. I have noticed such a difference in myself and the way the morning runs when I'm not dragging around in pjs and sweats trying to get my kids together. I forget less, I am more patient and pleasant, AND somehow, we have more time for important things like family prayer and a little pre-school conversation! My house is clean and together earlier in the morning, I'm out and about running errands and getting things done sooner, it's just great! This is one thing I have started that adds vigor, meaning and joy to my life. Don't knock it until you've tried it!:)
What are your ideas?
P.S. Thanks for the ideas with the kids. And, Christa, we ARE the noisiest family in the ward.